The Witching Hour: Evening Fussiness
The short answer
The "witching hour" is a period of increased fussiness and crying that commonly occurs in the late afternoon or evening, typically between 5-11 PM. It is most common in newborns and young babies (2-12 weeks) and usually resolves by 3-4 months. It is thought to be related to overstimulation, fatigue, and immature nervous system regulation.
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Evening fussiness often starts around 2-3 weeks and intensifies through week 6. Your baby has been processing stimulation all day and their immature nervous system becomes overwhelmed by evening. Skin-to-skin contact, gentle motion, white noise, a dim quiet environment, and feeding on demand all help.
This is typically the peak of the witching hour. Crying may be intense and seem inconsolable. Try the 5 S's: swaddling, side-lying (in your arms), shushing, swinging, and sucking. Wearing your baby in a carrier can help. Take turns with a partner. This phase is temporary.
Evening fussiness usually decreases significantly by 12-16 weeks as your baby's nervous system matures and they develop better self-regulation. If evening crying continues to be severe past 4 months, discuss with your pediatrician.
If evening fussiness returns or persists, it may be related to overtiredness (check the nap schedule and bedtime), hunger, teething, or a need for earlier bedtime. Adjust the evening routine to include a calming wind-down period.
What Should You Do?
When to take action
- Evening fussiness in a baby aged 2-12 weeks that follows a daily pattern
- Baby is otherwise feeding well, gaining weight, and content at other times of day
- Fussiness improves with holding, motion, or feeding
- The pattern gradually improves and resolves by 3-4 months
- Crying is extreme and lasts more than 3 hours per day, 3 days per week (meets colic criteria)
- You are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or having scary thoughts about your baby
- Evening crying persists past 4-5 months without improvement
- Baby is inconsolable with a fever, vomiting, bloody stools, or seems in pain
- You feel you might lose control or harm your baby - put baby in a safe place and step away for a few minutes, then call for help
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