Is My Older Baby Sleeping Too Much?
The short answer
While babies need a lot of sleep, a sudden increase in sleep or difficulty waking can sometimes signal illness, growth spurt, or recovery from sleep debt. If your baby over 4 months is consistently sleeping more than 16-17 hours per day and seems lethargic when awake, mention it to your pediatrician.
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By Age
What to expect by age
Newborns sleep a lot (14-17 hours) and this is normal. The only concern is if your baby is not waking to feed or is not gaining weight. Your pediatrician may advise waking to feed every 2-3 hours until birth weight is regained.
If your baby suddenly sleeps much more than usual, it may be a growth spurt (lasts 2-3 days), recovering from sleep debt, or the beginning of an illness. Growth spurts resolve quickly. If excessive sleep persists more than a few days without obvious cause, check with your pediatrician.
Excessive sleep at this age may be related to illness, a developmental leap, or catching up after disrupted sleep. If your baby is hard to wake, seems groggy when awake, or is not interested in feeding or playing, consult your pediatrician.
If your toddler suddenly needs significantly more sleep and seems lethargic, this warrants attention. Common causes include fighting an illness, iron deficiency, or poor-quality sleep due to snoring or sleep apnea.
What Should You Do?
When to take action
- Baby sleeps more for 2-3 days during a growth spurt
- Extra sleep follows a period of poor sleep or illness
- Baby is happy and alert when awake despite sleeping more
- Extra sleep resolves on its own within a few days
- Baby consistently sleeps significantly more than age-appropriate amounts
- Baby is difficult to wake and seems groggy
- Excessive sleep persists more than a few days without obvious cause
- Baby is not interested in feeding or playing when awake
- Baby is very difficult to wake, seems limp or unresponsive
- Excessive sleepiness with fever, poor feeding, or signs of dehydration
- Baby has sudden change in consciousness or alertness
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