Feeding & Eating

Baby Not Drinking Enough Water

The short answer

Babies under 6 months do not need water at all because breast milk and formula provide all the hydration they need. In fact, giving water to young infants can be dangerous as it can cause electrolyte imbalances. After 6 months, small sips of water (2-4 ounces per day) can be introduced with meals as solids are started. By 12 months, toddlers should drink about 1-4 cups of water daily alongside their milk intake.

By Age

What to expect by age

Do not give water to babies under 6 months. Breast milk is about 88% water, and formula is mixed with the appropriate amount of water. Giving additional water can fill up the baby's small stomach, reducing milk intake and potentially causing weight loss. In rare cases, excessive water intake in young infants can lead to water intoxication (hyponatremia), a dangerous condition where sodium levels drop too low, causing seizures.

Continue to avoid offering water. Even in hot weather, breastfed or formula-fed babies get sufficient hydration from their milk. If you are concerned about dehydration in hot weather, offer more frequent breast or formula feeds instead of water. Signs of adequate hydration include 6-8 wet diapers per day, moist mouth and lips, and tears when crying.

When complementary foods are introduced around 6 months, you can begin offering small amounts of water in an open cup or straw cup during meals. About 2-4 ounces (60-120 mL) per day is typically sufficient at this stage, as breast milk or formula remains the primary source of hydration. Use plain water without fluoride drops unless recommended by your pediatrician in an area without fluoridated water. The goal is to familiarize your baby with drinking water, not to replace milk feeds.

As toddlers transition from formula or decrease breastfeeding, water becomes an increasingly important source of hydration. Aim for approximately 1-4 cups (8-32 ounces) of water per day in addition to 16-24 ounces of whole milk. Offer water throughout the day, especially during and between meals, after physical activity, and in hot weather. If your toddler resists plain water, try an open cup, a straw cup, or adding a splash of fruit for subtle flavor. Avoid water substitutes like juice or sweetened drinks.

What Should You Do?

When to take action

Probably normal when...
  • Your baby under 6 months does not drink water and is well-hydrated from breast milk or formula with 6-8 wet diapers per day
  • Your baby over 6 months drinks small sips of water with meals but still relies primarily on breast milk or formula for hydration
  • Your toddler prefers milk or water over other beverages and has consistent wet diapers or urination throughout the day
  • Your baby or toddler has clear to light yellow urine, moist lips, and tears when crying
Mention at your next visit when...
  • Your toddler refuses to drink any water and you are relying solely on milk for hydration
  • Your baby or toddler seems to have decreased urine output, fewer than 4-6 wet diapers per day
  • You live in a hot climate and are concerned about whether your baby is getting enough fluids
Act now when...
  • Your baby or toddler has signs of dehydration: no tears when crying, dry mouth and lips, sunken fontanelle (soft spot), very dark urine, no wet diaper for 6-8 hours, or extreme lethargy
  • Your young infant (under 6 months) has accidentally consumed a large amount of water and shows symptoms like swelling, irritability, drowsiness, or seizures (possible water intoxication)

Sources

When to Introduce Allergens to Baby

Current guidelines recommend introducing common allergens (peanut, egg, cow's milk products, tree nuts, wheat, soy, fish, shellfish, sesame) starting around 4-6 months when your baby is developmentally ready for solids. The landmark LEAP study showed that early introduction of peanuts (by 4-6 months) reduced peanut allergy risk by 80% in high-risk infants. Do not delay allergens - the old advice to wait until 1-3 years has been reversed because early exposure actually prevents allergies.

I'm Worried My Baby Is Aspirating During Feeds

Aspiration means liquid or food enters the airway instead of the stomach. Occasional coughing during feeds is common and does not usually indicate aspiration. True aspiration is less common and may present as recurrent respiratory infections, a wet or gurgly voice after feeds, or chronic cough. If you are concerned, a swallow study can provide a definitive answer.

Baby Biting Nipple While Nursing

Biting during breastfeeding is a common challenge, especially when babies start teething. It can be startling and painful, but it is almost always a phase that can be managed. Babies cannot actively nurse and bite at the same time because their tongue covers the lower teeth during proper sucking. Biting typically happens at the beginning or end of a feed when the latch is not active. With some gentle strategies, most babies learn quickly that biting ends the feeding session.

My Baby Keeps Choking on Food

First, it's important to distinguish between gagging and choking. Gagging is a normal protective reflex that helps babies learn to eat, while true choking is silent and requires immediate intervention. Most "choking" episodes parents describe are actually gagging, which is common and expected as babies explore new textures. However, if your baby frequently struggles with swallowing or shows signs of true choking, it's worth discussing with your pediatrician.

Baby Choking or Coughing on Milk or Liquids

It is common for babies to occasionally cough, sputter, or have milk come out of their nose during feeding, especially in the early weeks. This usually happens because of a fast milk flow (letdown), an immature swallowing coordination, or feeding in a position that is too reclined. Occasional choking episodes during feeding that resolve quickly are usually not serious. Adjusting feeding position, pacing the feed, and using a slower-flow nipple can help.

Baby Choking vs Gagging - How to Tell the Difference

Gagging is a normal protective reflex that pushes food away from the airway - your baby will cough, sputter, or make retching sounds and will usually be red in the face. Choking is when the airway is partially or fully blocked - your baby may be silent, unable to cry or cough, and may turn blue. Gagging is noisy and resolves on its own. Choking is often silent and requires immediate action. If your baby cannot breathe, cry, or cough, begin infant back blows and chest thrusts immediately.