Behavior & Social

Baby Excessive Drooling

The short answer

Excessive drooling in babies is very common and almost always completely normal. Babies typically start drooling more between 2-4 months as their salivary glands become more active, but they have not yet learned to swallow saliva efficiently. Drooling often increases further when teething begins. Most babies naturally drool less as they develop better oral motor control by age 18-24 months.

By Age

What to expect by age

Very young babies generally do not drool much because their salivary glands are not yet fully active. If your newborn is drooling excessively, it could be related to feeding difficulties or, rarely, trouble swallowing. For most babies at this age, some drooling is normal and not a concern.

This is when drooling typically kicks into high gear. Your baby's salivary glands are becoming more active, but they have not yet developed the coordination to swallow all that saliva. This coincides with the phase when babies start putting their hands and objects in their mouths. Many parents wonder if their baby is teething this early - while possible, the drooling is usually just a normal developmental stage, not necessarily a sign of teeth.

Drooling continues and may increase as teething begins, typically between 4-7 months. Saliva actually serves a helpful purpose during teething - it has antibacterial properties that protect irritated gums. You may notice more drooling when specific teeth are coming in. Keep the chin and neck dry when possible to prevent drool rash, and change wet bibs and clothes frequently.

Drooling gradually decreases as your toddler develops better oral motor control and learns to swallow saliva more effectively. Some increased drooling may happen when molars come in. If your toddler is still drooling excessively after 18-24 months, especially if it is not related to teething, mention it to your pediatrician as they may want to check oral motor development.

Most children have significantly reduced drooling by age 2. If excessive drooling persists well beyond age 2 and is not related to teething, it is worth discussing with your pediatrician. Persistent drooling can sometimes be related to oral motor tone, enlarged tonsils or adenoids, chronic nasal congestion, or other factors that are all very treatable.

What Should You Do?

When to take action

Probably normal when...
  • Your baby is between 2-12 months old and drooling frequently - this is the peak drooling age and is completely normal
  • Drooling increases around 4-7 months when teething typically begins, and your baby is also chewing on things
  • Your baby is happy, feeding well, and developing normally despite the drooling
  • You need to change bibs frequently or your baby soaks through shirts - some babies simply produce more saliva than others
  • Drooling comes and goes, often worse during teething episodes or when putting objects in their mouth
Mention at your next visit when...
  • Your child is over 2 years old and still drooling excessively when not teething
  • Drooling is accompanied by difficulty swallowing, gagging on liquids or solids, or chronic coughing during feeding
  • Your baby has persistent drool rash that is not improving with gentle skincare, or the rash seems infected
  • Drooling is accompanied by mouth breathing, snoring, or noisy breathing, which could suggest enlarged tonsils or adenoids
Act now when...
  • Your baby suddenly starts drooling excessively along with difficulty breathing, inability to swallow, or a high fever, which could indicate an infection like epiglottitis or a foreign object
  • Your baby is drooling excessively and refusing to eat or drink, seems to be in pain when swallowing, or has visible sores in the mouth
  • Drooling starts suddenly after a possible ingestion of a toxic substance or small object

Sources

My Toddler Is Aggressive Toward Pets

Toddlers being rough with pets is extremely common and almost never reflects true aggression or cruelty. Young children lack the motor control to be consistently gentle and do not yet understand that animals feel pain the way they do. With patient, consistent teaching about gentle touch and close supervision, most toddlers learn to interact safely with pets by age 3-4.

My Baby Doesn't Seem Attached to Anyone

By 7-9 months, most babies show clear preferences for their primary caregivers and some wariness of unfamiliar people. If your baby seems equally comfortable with everyone and shows no distress when separated from caregivers, it may simply reflect an easy-going temperament. However, if combined with other social differences, it can occasionally warrant further discussion with your pediatrician.

My Baby Arches Their Back

Back arching is very common in babies and usually a normal way of expressing frustration, discomfort, or just stretching and moving. Most babies arch their backs when upset, tired, or trying to see something. However, persistent arching with crying, especially during feeding, can be a sign of reflux or discomfort that should be discussed with your pediatrician.

My Baby Grinds Their Teeth

Teeth grinding (bruxism) is surprisingly common in babies and toddlers, affecting up to 30% of young children. Most children grind their teeth as they explore their new teeth or self-soothe, and the vast majority outgrow it completely by age 6 with no lasting damage to their teeth.

Baby Not Playing Independently

Needing a lot of parental interaction during play is completely normal for babies and young toddlers. Independent play is a skill that develops gradually, and expecting too much too soon can backfire. Most babies under 12 months genuinely need your presence to feel safe enough to explore. By 18-24 months, short stretches of independent play (5-15 minutes) begin to emerge, gradually lengthening through the toddler years. Your child is not spoiled or overly dependent - they are doing exactly what developing brains are designed to do.

My Baby Only Wants One Parent

Parent preference is one of the most common and emotionally painful behaviors in babies and toddlers. It is a completely normal part of attachment development and is not a reflection of who is the "better" parent. Babies and toddlers typically cycle through phases of preferring one parent, and the "rejected" parent's consistent, loving presence during these phases actually strengthens their bond over time.